I often feel like I'm pulled in a hundred different directions during the Holidays. Between the needs of family, friends, and work; there is the added stress of shopping, driving, and trying to make other people happy. There is great JOY to be found in making someone else smile: whether it is through receiving a gift, playing games with family, or simply sharing special moments. But there is also the people-pleaser that needs to go to this party, or that party...as if to make an appearance equates to love and care. There is no avoiding the fact that other people judge us for attending, not attending, and our level of happiness over the Holidays. Where am I going with this?---stay with me...
Being financially burdened this Holiday season has made me realize those judgements were just in my head. I have an imagination that thinks other people judge my gifts, my attendance at a party, my attitude...and anything else...and this imagination always has a negative judgement. But this year felt different. I had few gifts to give, and they were simple. But everyone understood my situation, made me feel welcome and loved, and gave back a gift to me through the realization: People are not superficial. The season really IS about LOVE. Everyone seems to want a genuine connection. Seeing the good in people and situations has really made a difference in my attitude towards life. My life preserver for the Holidays: A positive outlook!
